Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Well, Its Pre Season and whats Pre Season on the blog without a bit of Baboo and Bhenny. For those new on the blog they are advise columnists.Baboo is just a regular, wild obnoxious man and Bhenny a real liberal....the type that believes women are great,must be independent and a true Liberal.
Anyway here was the question posed to our columnists
"Dear Baboo and Bhenny.My name is Jose and I am from Spain and working in South Africa for a year. I am good looking and I have dated many South African Women.However I find that whenever I have dated an Indian women and its time to pay the Bill,They just sit and act like theres no bill, leaving me to pay for it,which I dont mind.I just wanna know.Do all Indian Women do this or have i just dated the wrong ones.Please Help?
BHENNY: Jose.This is not Europe.And its not culture.Its the right thing to do. In SA we respect women and its the chivalrous thing to do.And its the Gentlemanly thing to do
usually, here in our place, its the guy that pays the bill. they said its a sign of being a gentleman. but now, people are more open-minded and women don't mind if they pay the bill sometimes or share it with the guy. for me, during the courting stage, I prefer if the guy pays the bill. having me to share or pay the whole bill on a date would turn me off and I'd stop going out with him. for me, paying the bill is part of impressing the girl and pleasing her. now if we're already going steady, I'd be open to share or pay the whole bill. sometimes its nice to treat the guy and make him feel special as a boyfriend.
Also sometimes you must be smart and pay ladies,It releaves all the sexuall tension. Far too many times the guy would expect something for a night out. By me paying, it basically told him, I didn't owe him anything and I just wanted spend time with him. But this theory only applies if you know he is only after one thing
BABOO: You know what Jose.You are so ritte.Il tell you why. Since Gori babi passed on,it was aparteheid days.But with the cosmopolitan SA I Begun dating women of other cultures.And when I have dated white,black,Chinese etc I swear that when the Bill arrived they reached out in their pockets and said can they at least go half. Now I wouldnt let them pay either way but the thought of them suggesting it just melts my heart. And whenever I have dated Indian aunties...they just sit there.The Bill comes and they look at the fish tank or their shoes.Its like its not f#$en there.
But when the food comes..their eyes light up and they activate their guidance system and zone in on things like Decor and the food.But when the f#4ken bill comes they guidance system is switched off and they f#4ken look at everything but the Bill. They dont even enquire....How much the food was,Nuthing. They look at you like when God created you the man.He created you with the soul purpose of Paying the Bill.i mean at least offer. Thats all.Just Ask Can I help you with that.Thats all.Its just a simple action. But no!Dont get me wrong.We wont let them pay.All Im saying Jose is that Indian Women should offer. Thats all. All the Indian Women you and I have dated have one thing in Common.They have NOT OFFERED. I mean f34k Chivalry.Those days are gone. These days women earn more than man. Is that Chivalrous. Its a womens world man.But you tell me with their smart cars and clothes from MANGO they cant even OFFER...NOT PAY OFFER. THATS ALL O-----F-----F----E-----R---.Offer to pay the Bill.And you know whats the Beauty part is that they all play toward their World Cup Final.Villa Mora.They want to play at Wembley Stadium and FNB but they dont know how to kick a ball.
They cant offer at MUGG and BEAN but they want to drain you at Villa Mora. Going to VillaMora with an Indian WOMEN is like going to a bank and taking out a BOND.Same thing.Have I made my point!
Readers please share your views pertaining Joses question.